Relational Dojo - Ali Tataryn

Relational Dojo
Training Healthy Relational Sparring
You've seen the power of relational intensity...
Why not move towards relational mastery?
You've had indescribable breakthroughs... but sometimes relational spaces get weird.
You've watched facilitators fall on their face when new people don't seem to "get it".
You know how "messy" can create breakthroughs... but you've also seen it... hurt people?
I get it.
You're doing the exact same exercises as the ones you did before... so why is this one not landing?
My name is Ali.
And I have navigated all these same struggles.
My membership was brutally disrupted when I was running a circling group about 5 years ago, and one of the participants (a very close friend of mine) screamed "Stop talking about your feelings you F* P*ssy*" to a brand new participant I had invited in.
All of us paused. We knew "technically" it was passable and okay that he said that, after all, it was his truth! And I'd attended events where people talked like that all the time... but this felt... different. Something about this felt... abusive & traumatizing?
My life's mission quickly became the question of: How do I create both a BRAVE space and a SAFE space?
What had the events I was part of done, that I wasn't aware of?
What was I marketing to people?
What did I need to do so that breakthroughs happen and not breakdowns?
"My life's mission quickly became the question of: How do I create both a BRAVE space and a SAFE space? "
Join us for a 6 month relational intensive
Where you'll master the yin & yang of relational sparring
Create a space where your attendees have incredible breakthroughs.
Learn step-by-step practices to transition new people into understanding relational practice.
Have tonnes of practice, feedback, and worksheets to refer to so you feel really clear and confident in navigating messy spaces, and even preventing them when they're not necessary.
Train under Ali + Special Guests,
10+ year, "been through it all", experienced relational facilitators
in a co-created space of safety, brave-ty, evolution, & humility.
Weekly + bi-weekly teachings
Weekly + bi-weekly workgroups
x2 in-person weekend intensives
6 hours personal mentorship with Ali or other relational masters
Workbooks & Printables
Option to apply for 2026 certification session
What people say about the dojo...
"I whole heartedly recommend the Relational Dojo. Ali guides participants through relational practices and nuanced emotional terrain with both compassion and grounded leadership.”
— Trevor Broesky
“The practices are detailed and precise, but the experience is always novel and enlivening. ...This is bar-none the best space I’ve found.”
— Adam Luck
“Ali is a masterful facilitator who holds a container with firmness, gentleness, and warmth. I carry beautiful moments of connection and clear-eyed, open-hearted witnessing.”
— Dennis Xiao
dennisbxiao.com
LEARN TO SIT IN RELATIONAL FIRE
USE RELATIONAL AIKIDO TO DODGE THE FIRE
OPEN PEOPLE BEYOND REACTIVITY
RE-LOVE PARTS OF YOURSELF YOU ABANDONDED
TRANSFER WHAT YOU LEARN TO *REAL* RELATIONSHIPS
LEARN FRAMEWORKS AND MINDSETS TO SET UP BETTER SPACES
level 1
Bonding with the cohort
Get to know deeper layers of you
Learning Yin questioning + listening
level 2
Learning frameworks + distinctions
+ the persuit of shared reality
Bring Yang to the processee
Keep Yin in the collective inquiry
with somatic self-awareness training
level 3
Sourcing the collective wisdom
Notice differences
Dance with dissonance
Keep love at the source
Weave in 3rd person inquiries & reality-checking
(Live event)
level 4
Learn to be Yin with Yang on Yang sparring
Learn to de-escelate Yang explosions
(w/o dismissing the truth of the fire)
Be in the unknown... together.
(this is a LIVE event only)
Level 5
Back to simplicity
Back to yin
Back to practicing as practice
And letting go of our addiction to intensity
The Relatonal Dojo will take you to deeper layers of truth
While simoultaneously teaching you how to
be a better friend, partner, lover, human.
Aliveness doesn't need to be dangerous.
Authenticity doesn't need to be reactive.
Connection doesn't need to be desperate.
Get priority updates on the Dojo Winter 2025
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Relational Dojo Training Healthy Relational Sparring

You've seen the power of relational intensity...

You've had indescribable breakthroughs... but sometimes relational spaces get weird.

You've watched facilitators fall on their face when new people don't seem to "get it".

You know how "messy" can create breakthroughs... but you've also seen it... hurt people?

I get it.

You're doing the exact same exercises as the ones you did before... so why is this one not landing?

My name is Ali.

"My life's mission quickly became the question of: How do I create both a BRAVE space and a SAFE space? "

Join us for a 6 month relational intensive

Where you'll master the yin & yang of relational sparring

Train under Ali + Special Guests,

10+ year, "been through it all", experienced relational facilitators

in a co-created space of safety, brave-ty, evolution, & humility.

Weekly + bi-weekly teachings

Weekly + bi-weekly workgroups

x2 in-person weekend intensives

6 hours personal mentorship with Ali or other relational masters

Workbooks & Printables

Option to apply for 2026 certification session

What people say about the dojo...

"I whole heartedly recommend the Relational Dojo. Ali guides participants through relational practices and nuanced emotional terrain with both compassion and grounded leadership.”

— Trevor Broesky

“The practices are detailed and precise, but the experience is always novel and enlivening. ...This is bar-none the best space I’ve found.”

— Adam Luck

“Ali is a masterful facilitator who holds a container with firmness, gentleness, and warmth. I carry beautiful moments of connection and clear-eyed, open-hearted witnessing.”

— Dennis Xiao

dennisbxiao.com

LEARN TO SIT IN RELATIONAL FIRE

USE RELATIONAL AIKIDO TO DODGE THE FIRE

OPEN PEOPLE BEYOND REACTIVITY

RE-LOVE PARTS OF YOURSELF YOU ABANDONDED

TRANSFER WHAT YOU LEARN TO *REAL* RELATIONSHIPS

LEARN FRAMEWORKS AND MINDSETS TO SET UP BETTER SPACES

level 1

level 2

level 3

level 4

Level 5

The Relatonal Dojo will take you to deeper layers of truth

While simoultaneously teaching you how to

be a better friend, partner, lover, human.

Get priority updates on the Dojo Winter 2025

Relational Dojo
Training Healthy Relational Sparring

**TRANSFER WHAT YOU LEARN TO REAL RELATIONSHIPS**